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For those of you old enough to remember, Flip Wilson, you will recall a sign from him, Geraldine. Geraldine is smart, "described a wise-cracking-ass with an invisible friend named Killer." Geraldine was one of the favorite sayings, "Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, and it is not easy beholdin" hard enough. "I miss Geraldine. There is wisdom in this line of Geraldine, especially now when we are so obsessed with physical beauty.
Our generation isprobably more money on weight loss, plastic surgery, Botox, liposuction and spas than ever before. Anorexia and bulimia are no longer rare diseases and be seen in children aged 10 years. ) Are women (and men weight loss pills at the risk of debilitating side effects and / or death. Billions of dollars each year on skin care, makeup, self-care products, perfume and output. We parade our baby girl around on stage, dressed like hookers and plastered with make-upthat someone thinks she does look beautiful. We bring them to strut, pout forgiven, and grin all in the hope that they win a beauty contest in exchange for their innocence and their childhood.
(This was brought home in the recent film "Little Miss Sunshine). But true beauty is entirely physical? I quite a few years ago, a woman whose physical characteristics did not know they sat on the top of the" I am the most beautiful list. "Your weight and body size was good, buther face a little help needed - I thought. This was my first impression. She was a leader of the species, often in front of the group and I am sorry for them. (I have since learned to drop the case. I wish I had known that not earlier). Then I started to get to know them. She was one of the kindest, sweetest, most genuine people I've ever met (and this is true), this 20 some years later. She was the first on the stage when someone was in trouble, or there was a death in theFamily.
And she was not there, she was helping in a skilled and compassionate manner. She was always ready to praise, encourage and show understanding. She was a good speaker and had a beautiful voice and singing. They almost always had a smile and had an aura of joy, seemed to shine from the inside out. She was anything but a beautiful face. It is strange, but, as the last. When I know them better and better, I always said less about their physicalAppearance and in hindsight it is one of the nicest people I have ever known. Her inner beauty shines - the true beauty of who she is and how she leads her life makes her more beautiful than perfect face ever could.
The Lindsey Lohan and Paris Hiltons of the world should take from their lessons. They all have advantages in terms of physical beauty and financial ability to do everything they can to care for themselves. Neither can, start at the beauty that radiates from women like my friend.It is true. Beauty is in the game eye of the beholder. I was not beholdin simply "hard enough.